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bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:19:51 PM
let me explain what i mean by crutch: have you ever felt you were used to fill a void that someone else had when they didn't have a significant other, but never felt like you were a boyfriend/girlfriend per se?

i have this friend. we've been good friends for a few years. for a point in time, we were basically inseperable. texted eachother all the time, day in, day out. always talked to eachother, confided stuff in eachother. we went out to eat, went to movies, went out to the bar, hell, we even went shopping alot of times.

recently she went and got a boyfriend. and we talk to eachother like... once a week at most. now this happened before when she started seeing this kid, but after like 2 weeks, things went bad for her, and the broke it off, and we were like peas & carrots again (bonus points if you get the movie reference).

now i say i was like a crutch because, well, we did alot of the things boyfriend and girlfriend would do together, but we never actually were boyfriend and girlfriend. and i think our friendship was like that only when she wasn't seeing someone.

do you get what i'm saying?


Leinad

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:23:50 PM
I get what you're saying.

And to answer your question, no.


bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:27:13 PM
thanks danny

did you atleast try and get the movie reference?


Leinad

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:31:19 PM
I was thinking hard about the quote but I couldn't figure it out and I don't believe in googeling things like that to "win" so I was just waiting for someone to answer it.

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:32:58 PM
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I've been in that position a number of times.

It sucks... I know. =\



yeah

and she didn't really mention she had a boyfriend to me. her friend told me. i was like "well that's good to know..."


bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:33:15 PM
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Forrest Gump right?


badda bing. good work, whit

Skonliv

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:33:22 PM
I've had that happen a couple times before. You're pretty much the "best friend" and that's all you'll ever be.

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:34:02 PM
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I've had that happen a couple times before. You're pretty much the "best friend" and that's all you'll ever be.


yeah. that line is a killer statement right there.

Leinad

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:34:37 PM
wow, how could I miss a gump quote? =(

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:35:39 PM
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wow, how could I miss a gump quote? =(


for shame, dan

we'z was like peas and carrots again


bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:38:54 PM
well here's the thing. we were friends from way before. then we started hanging out at school playing crazy8s. then she was kinda interested in my friend. i made the connect, things fell through

that's originally when we started hanging out alot. over the summer that year, i say we hung out like 4 times a week

so it's been like a recurring cycle

goodmanbrown
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:31:41 PM
i knew the quote right off the bat....cuz jumpingbean and I would use it about us all the time

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:33:29 PM
aww, youz guyz was like peaz & carrotz
goodmanbrown
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:34:02 PM
lou...youre just one of the girls. im sorry bro

linds will send you his c*ck pix to cheer you up.

goodmanbrown
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:36:10 PM
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aww, youz guyz was like peaz & carrotz

she use to let me talk dirty to her in my forrest gump voice during whoopy.

she was teh only girl who got into roleplaying retards durign sex.


bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:36:43 PM
he did long ago
goodmanbrown
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:38:12 PM
now she shuns me for mistakes i shouldnt of made. mistakes that drove her to making mistakes.

and now some other dudes will be putting c*ck in my fuzzy semen bucket.


bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:39:00 PM
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quote:

aww, youz guyz was like peaz & carrotz

she use to let me talk dirty to her in my forrest gump voice during whoopy.

she was teh only girl who got into roleplaying retards durign sex.




i could see that

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:40:01 PM
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now she shuns me for mistakes i shouldnt of made. mistakes that drove her to making mistakes.

and now some other dudes will be putting c*ck in my fuzzy semen bucket.



so i guess i'll tell her no, then

bigdaddylou

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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:40:46 PM
nate did you post something somewhat informative? because i don't feel like clicking your links
goodmanbrown
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Posted: 5/12/2008 6:41:27 PM
id rather you f*ck her then anyone else.